A Student’s Journey into Education in Their 30s

My life today is so different from what it used to be. I had always dreamed of going to university, but as the years went on, the anxiety about whether I’d fit in - or even have the confidence to walk through the door - felt overwhelming.

Never did I imagine that I’d be in my first year of a Psychology degree after successfully completing my foundation year.

A Bit About My Journey

I left high school at 16 and, for a while, drifted through various college courses. Some seemed promising in terms of career paths, but when it came to actually doing them, they never quite felt right. I also faced health challenges and became a carer for my mum, which made the dream of university feel even further out of reach.

Where I Am Now

Fast-forward to today and I’m so proud of everything I’ve achieved so far.

My turning point came when I completed an online counselling course. I really enjoyed it, and it give me the confidence to apply for the Psychology degree at Wrexham University. The nerves were very much still there, but I had the feeling that if I don’t jump in now, I’ll never do it.

My main concerns were because I’m a mature student - I was worried that I wouldn’t fit in. I was also worried that I wouldn’t make any friends and that I would stand out in the class because I’m in my early 30s. This was not the case at all, however - the classes are completely mixed with people that have come straight out of college and people that have had life experience and then joined university, and everybody is just so friendly to each other and supportive.

What’s more, the tutors don’t treat you like children - they treat you like adults. The classes are informative, fun and nothing is sprung on you. You have plenty of warning about upcoming assignments, which really helps reduce stress. 

What I Wish I’d Known Before Starting

I wish I hadn’t been so hard on myself. I spent so much time worrying about how I’d feel at university, but I feel completely different now.

My confidence has massively improved. I walk into class with a sense of purpose, ready to learn and contribute.

The staff and students are genuinely welcoming, friendly and helpful. I made friends quickly - something I’ve struggled with in the past - and that’s meant so much to me.

Overall, I’m so pleased I made the decision to jump back into my education and finally do that one thing just for me. My dream of becoming something and contributing to something bigger is definitely within reach. 

- Written by Claire, BSc (Hons) Psychology (with Foundation Year) student.